It is finally that time of your life, huh? You found someone that completes you and you really want to be with them forever. That is the moment where you realize that you cannot simply let them go and would rather die than be separated from them. OR we could cut the cheese and say you just wanted to settle down even if the person you are marrying is not exactly the one you particularly want. That is funny because it is true for the majority of the world. Why do you think we get so many divorces? In any case, for that, you are going to need a NJ Wedding Photographer.
Aww, do not feel so bad. It is the truth and the sooner you get over it the better, right? Not to downplay any of the genuine love stories out there that came from a real life story, you simply cannot tell us that everything is just like that for everywhere else and for everyone. Because believing that is dumb.
But we, ourselves, are a dreamer as well. We are not really all that anti because, hey. We made it this far, right? Not exactly a pessimist, but maybe just cynical and slightly nihilistic. Okay, now that we laid that out, it kind of sounds really bad. But hear us out. We are not complete heartless bastards, okay?
We DO feel genuine romance and happiness when we attend weddings. The same as everyone else, we feel like we ought to be happy for this couple and we ARE. Even though there is going to be a little bit if niggling in the back of our minds that keep telling us there are no happy endings.
But like we said, we are dreamers. We love to read about those stories where people fall in love under the most ridiculous circumstances. That at first, they would hate each other but then ultimately fall in love. Yeah, we definitely are kind of suckers for that type of literature. But maybe we should be careful about what we say about that.
Because we just mean fan fiction. If it was a movie or an original novel, then we would likely get bored about that and quit. In real life though, knowing how rare it is, if we somehow do see a sincerely happy couple about to start on their long journey of being together, then we feel it too.
Those types of happenings need to be cemented and solidified. Why do you think there are photographers? They help you with how you want to permanently capture the moment. It helps that they have an eye for this sort of thing so it is not that hard for them to take the pictures for you.
Listen, if you ARE in love and you truly believe that the person you are with is the one for you, then know that that is something purely precious. Not everyone else can have something like that. Some of us will die without ever getting that.
So treasure it and keep it. See? Even us cynical bastards know that there is hope. Not a lot, but still there.